How to Set Up a Visit with LDS Missionaries

LDS missionaries don’t knock on doors as often as they used to, but it still happens. If they show up unexpectedly, you might not be ready to drop everything and have a meaningful conversation. That’s okay.

Smile, offer them something to drink, and ask how their day is going. Then say something like:

“I’d really love to talk, but this isn’t the best time. Could we set up another visit soon?”

Be the kind of Christian who’s glad they came. They’re accustomed to having doors slammed in their faces—or worse. A kind word, a snack, and a sincere interest may be more powerful than you realize.

But you don’t need to wait for LDS missionaries to knock on your door—take the first step and request a visit.

Go to ComeuntoChrist.org and fill out the short form to request a visit. You can be completely honest—you’re not pretending to be spiritually undecided or interested in joining the LDS Church. You’re simply inviting a conversation.

After you submit the form, don’t be surprised if you get a text message within minutes. Missionaries are often eager to meet as soon as possible.

Consider bringing a witnessing partner.

If possible, invite a trusted Christian friend, spouse, or someone from your church to join you for the visit. LDS missionaries always come in pairs, so it’s perfectly normal to have two Christians present as well. Having someone with you provides encouragement, helps you listen better, and gives you the confidence to stay focused on what matters most, pointing to Jesus.

What to Expect 

When they contact you, the missionaries will likely ask:

• When would be a good time to meet?
• Where would you prefer to meet (at your home, a public place, etc.)?
• Why are you interested in meeting?

You don’t need to overthink your answer. Be honest and kind. Here are a few natural, sincere ways you might respond:

• “I’m not looking to join the LDS Church, but I’d like to better understand the people living in my community.”
• “I’m not looking to join the LDS Church, but I’d like help understanding how to have deeper conversations with my LDS friends.”
• “I’m not looking to join the LDS Church, but I’d like to know more about what Latter-day Saints believe and why.”
• “I’m not looking to join the LDS Church, but I see they are building a temple near me, and I’d like to know more about what they believe.”

These responses are disarming, truthful, and open the door to meaningful conversation. They also communicate that you’re not trying to argue—you’re trying to learn, listen, and love well.

Set Expectations Early

This is also a good time to set a few gentle boundaries. You might say:

“If possible, I’d prefer to meet with just the two of you. I’ve found that smaller conversations help me focus and ask better questions.”

“Would it be okay to meet at my home?”
(Or, if needed: “Would a park or restaurant work better?”)

Also, keep in mind that if you are a woman requesting to meet with male missionaries (or vice versa), they may not be allowed to enter your home alone. In that case, offer to meet in a public location or request missionaries of your same gender.

Setting the tone early on helps avoid surprises and creates space for a conversation built on trust and respect.